User blog comment:Fire InThe Hole/WHAT UPDATE/@comment-16075172-20151022190206/@comment-16075172-20151022191900

I think I should use a different word besides "arguing" tbh; perhaps debate or disagreement or something that doesn't just sound like "angery back-and-forth"

It's more like, we both have different ideas and opinions, and we're allowed to share those ideas and opinions and reasonings for them, and doing so can actually be helpful for the other to consider or think something that they hadn't before. This would be something good if one of us is in a state of misinformation, or if a work or action could use constructive criticism, or if one of us has a good idea for a work that the other ends up really liking, or stuff like that

Now, that kind of stuff would be a good thing. The kind of stuff we want to avoid and get rid of in our interactions is hostility, anger, disrespect, and anything else that's nothing more than more hate between us and an eyesore for the rest of the community to see

If we can handle communication with the aspects former paragraph, and without the aspects of the latter paragraph, then our relationship can improve and we can help to better ourselves, one another, and our ideas in the long run -- and, by extension, the community, from the state it would be in after our incidents which include the aspects of the latter paragraph