User blog comment:Fire InThe Hole/Fire disappearifies./@comment-1917722-20160513150039/@comment-24689821-20160513163127

"even though I feel both of you act as if he's deeply insulted you in the root of your soul"

i mean i totally forgive Wid because it was mostly a lack of communication thing, but yeah, if you kinda insult a huge part of my identity then yes, thats a deep insult that has to be addressed

if you had tried to "prevent" this what good would it have done, seriously, its important for people to get their feelings out in the open so we can talk and hopefully resolve it. users have the right to be mad and talk about why they're mad and respond to each other.

its probably easy for you to close off your side of the book, tell others not to question you, and to act avoidant. it would be probably less easy but maybe better in the long run if this dialogue continued, in my opinion, rather than remaining unresolved